Iubirea e supraevaluata

Mi-ai spus ca iubirea e supraevaluata, ea de fapt constand doar in conventii sociale. Nu te-am contrazis, dar nici nu am putut sa iti dau dreptate. Mai degraba m-a amuzat si m-a pus pe ganduri.
Probabil asa vezi tu lucrurile pe care nu le intelegi sau lucrurile pe care nu ai apucat sa le cunosti in plina forma pana acum.

Nu am intrat cu tine in polemica pentru ca m-am gasit in aceeasi situatie de mai multe ori, dar in acele dati am incercat sa ii explic orbului, cum arata culoarea. Nu am avut succes prea mare nici atunci.

M-am razgandit insa, vreau sa incerc sa iti explic.

Din pacate, multi trec prin viata fara sa intalneasca culoarea. Ei cred de multe ori ca o vad, ca o simt, ca o ating, insa doar cei care ulterior se indragostesc cu adevarat, isi dau seama ca pana atunci, totul a fost un joc pregatitor si in multe cazuri, o minciuna pe care si-o repetau mereu in gand (o iubesc, ma iubeste), poate motivele fiind chiar acele conventii sociale.

E drept ca fiecare om iubeste altfel si poate noi, cei care am avut mai mult noroc sa iubim, dam cu judecata prea usor, dar e la fel de adevarat ca omului care iubeste, i se citeste in ochi flacara, pasiunea si de ce nu, culoarea care eclipseaza viata.

Asa cum te-am intrebat pe tine, am intrebat si pe alte persoane daca iubesc. Multi mi-au raspuns ‘da’. Ulterior i-am intrebat daca sunt fericiti. Multi mi-au raspuns ‘nu’.
Eu sunt de parere ca una nu poate exista fara cealalta. Daca iubesti, esti fericit, daca nu o faci, nu esti.
Vei dezbate afirmatia asta si imi vei spune ca sunt o multitudine de oameni care isi iubesc partenerii mai mult ca orice, dar totusi nu sunt fericiti cu viata pe care o au, iar eu iti voi da dreptate. Insa prin afirmatia mea, nu ma opresc la iubirea amoroasa, ci fac referire la viata pe care trebuie sa o imbratisam si sa o iubim, oricum ar fi ea, buna sau rea. Cand ea va fi buna cu tine, vei cunoaste fericirea ca nici o alta data, iar cand ea nu va fi la fel de buna, iti va fi mai usor sa intlegi si sa accepti lucrurile pe care nu le poti schimba.

Putem trai in frica si sa fim incatusati de ea sau putem trai in iubire, liberi de constrangeri. Alegerea a fost si va fi mereu a noastra, chiar daca nu e vizibila pentru toti.

Sper ca circumstante favorabile te vor face sa iti schimbi parerea si intelegerea despre iubire. Nicidecum pentru a-mi da mie dreptate, dar pentru ca sa iti permiti sa iti dirijezi viata prin dragoste si nu prin conventii sociale. Pentru a putea vedea prin culoare, viata care e de-a dreptul un amalgam colorat, nu un tern social.

 

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More was never enough

“Money is NOT EVIL by itself, its just paper with perceived value to obtain other things we value in other ways.

IF NOT MONEY – WHAT IS EVIL YOU MAY ASK?
Evil is the unquenchable, obsessive and moral bending desire for MORE.
EVIL is the bottomless, soulless and obsessive-compulsive pursuit of some pot of gold at the end of some rainbow which doesn’t exist

EVIL is having a PRICE tag for your HEART and SOUL in exchange for Financial Success at ANY cost.

EVIL is trying to BUY happiness, again and again, until all of those fake, short lived mirages of emotions are gone.

IMAGINE HAVING IT ALL — ONLY TO LOSE IT ALL…
YOU ARE NOW BROKE – all the money is gone, what do you have?
The only solution to your madness and happiness was acquiring MORE
Now you have NO MORE MEANS TO ACQUIRE FAKE HAPPINESS…

NO MORE MEANS TO ACQUIRE MORE
SO…WHO ARE YOU NOW?
Where are all the people NOW who you thought were your friends while the money was flowing in?
You might have lost your family, friends and mostly everyone in the world thinks you are a self centered, egotistical asshole.
Why? Because of YOUR endless pursuit for MORE clouded your mind and diverted you from your TRUE PURPOSE IN LIFE!

DOES THIS HIT AN EMOTIONAL CHORD IN YOU?

DID IT DEPRESS OR SADDEN YOU?

…I ALMOST SAID GOOD, but I say this ONLY because I want YOU TO CHANGE!!

I’m not saying you can’t be financially successful;
I’m SAYING HAVE A GREATER PURPOSE IN LIFE well beyond the Pursuit of Financial Success.

Your Soul is SCREAMING for you to answer your TRUE calling

You can CHANGE today if you redefine what SUCCESS is to you.
You can transform your damaged relationships and build new ones.
You can forgive yourself and others who’ve hurt you
you can become a leader by mentoring with others who you aspire to be like.
You can re-balance your priorities in life.
You can heal your marriage and recreate a stronger LOVE than you ever thought possible.

You can become the best parent possible at ANY age – even 86, but don’t WAIT until then…

You will always be able to make more money, BUT you CANNOT make more time.

One day, just like me, you will DIE too…
What do YOU want to be remembered for?
What can YOU do for others to make the world a better place?
What is YOUR true purpose on this Earth?

We are ALL dying – but only a small select few are truly LIVING.

You can step out of the Shadows into the LIGHT.
You were meant for GREATNESS
You were meant for MORE than just what you do for a living.
You are an eternal being meant to INSPIRE AND HELP THE WORLD!

——LET’S GET IT RIGHT ONCE AND FOR ALL IN THIS LIFETIME…

TODAY, YOU STEP INTO THE WORLD WHERE TRUE LOVE EXISTS
AND YOU FINALLY REALIZE THAT LOVE IN FACT, IS
“THE MORE” YOU’VE WANTED YOUR WHOLE LIFE

JUST LOVE MORE AND MORE,
EVERY DAY IN EVERY WAY
AND
NEVER GIVE UP,
regardless of how challenging your destiny and life will be…

The World really needs you now more than ever…
Together, with Love, Compassion and faith in HUMANITY, WE WILL DEFEAT EVIL, ONCE AND FOR ALL!”

Morgan Freeman – “More was never enough”

 

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All I ever wanted, was the world

We drift in this beautiful life as strangers in the woods on a forgotten road, never knowing which direction we should turn and as a consequence we almost never understand what we truly want; what our ultimate dreams are or what we should expect from the almost never ending tomorrow morning.

We start a school that doesn’t interest us very much. We work a job that pays the bill, but that we don’t enjoy. We live in a place that doesn’t suit our needs anymore. We love a person that only exists in our mind. We shoot blank bullets on dreams and goals.

This cannot go on anymore! We have to decide what we want in life, it will not go on forever. The years are passing and our white hair starts growing. We don’t have time to loose or to donate to misery. We have to decide.

I firmly decided. I realized that all I ever wanted was the world.

I want to have everything that this life has to offer. I want to stop dreaming and start doing. I want to love, to dance, to laugh, to wake up hangover on the beach just because I can. Just because life can offer us everything, we have to take everything.

Why should we live in a shadow, when we can get a tan in the sun? Why should we accept what is given or ‘written’ for us, when we can create everything that we want, reach all goals that we set up for us? Why should we embark in this journey and not decide where we want to stop or decide when it’s time to drift further?

We shouldn’t! We should be the ‘writers’ of our book, not society, not strangers, not even parents or friends. We! We are the ones that can choose if we want to live in happiness or rot in non-fulfillment. We decide if we live this life or if we let it pass by.

So go! Decide, realize, think and then go and start living it.